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Stranger danger

Also called stranger danger phase, stranger anxiety, stranger fear

Stranger danger is what parents call a baby's wariness or tears around people they don't know. Professionals call the same stage stranger anxiety.

How it's said

  • ...has had a strong "stranger danger" radar since around 8 months old.
  • I'm actually a bit worried he has no sense of stranger danger!
  • Stranger danger can occur with new people or even with family members, who aren't strangers at all.

Who says it

  • Parents
  • Parents on forums
  • Doctors
  • Nursery staff
  • Brands

Not to be confused with

  • Stranger danger is a baby's wariness of people they don't know. Separation anxiety is upset when a parent leaves, and the two often turn up in the same months.

Where it came from

Stranger danger began as a child safety slogan, chosen for its rhyme. Wikipedia dates the phrase to the 1960s.

Parents also use the rhyme for a much younger stage: a baby's fear of unfamiliar faces, which psychologists call stranger anxiety or stranger fear. A developmental pediatrician writing for HealthyBaby uses it this way, and Romper asks when babies learn stranger danger.